Parenting after separation or divorce can be one of the most emotionally complex experiences for any family. Even with the best intentions, communication challenges, differing parenting styles, and lingering conflict can make co-parenting difficult to navigate. As a licensed mental health counselor with a background in clinical psychology, I’ve witnessed how unresolved conflict between parents can deeply affect both adults and children. The good news is that families don’t have to face these challenges alone—parenting coordination services can make a tremendous difference.
What Is Parenting Coordination?
Parenting coordination is a specialized, court-recognized process designed to help parents reduce conflict, improve communication, and make child-centered decisions. In Florida, Parenting Coordinators (PCs) are neutral professionals—often licensed mental health professionals or attorneys—appointed by the court or agreed upon by both parents.
The Parenting Coordinator’s role is to:
Parenting coordination is not therapy, but it often draws on therapeutic principles—such as conflict resolution, emotional regulation, and empathy-building—to help parents work together more productively.
How Parenting Coordination Helps Families Thrive
When parents are in constant conflict, children often feel caught in the middle. They may experience anxiety, confusion, or guilt, even if parents never argue directly in front of them. Parenting coordination offers a structured, supportive environment where parents can learn to manage disagreements constructively.
Some of the most meaningful outcomes I’ve seen through this process include:
The Florida Framework for Parenting Coordination
Florida has one of the most well-defined systems for parenting coordination in the U.S. Under Florida Statute §61.125, courts may appoint a Parenting Coordinator to assist parents in implementing their parenting plan when high conflict interferes with effective co-parenting.
To serve as a Parenting Coordinator in Florida, professionals must:
This framework ensures that Parenting Coordinators are not only skilled in conflict management but also sensitive to the emotional needs of parents and children.
Why Choose Parenting Coordination?
Families who participate in parenting coordination often describe feeling a sense of relief—as though they finally have a neutral, supportive guide to help navigate ongoing challenges. Instead of turning to the court system for every dispute, parents can rely on their Parenting Coordinator to help mediate issues and keep the focus where it belongs: on their child’s wellbeing.
Parenting coordination can be especially beneficial when:
A Step Toward a More Peaceful Future
At its heart, parenting coordination is about helping families heal, rebuild trust, and create stability. It’s not about assigning blame or determining who’s “right” or “wrong”—it’s about supporting parents in becoming their best co-parenting selves.
When parents work collaboratively, even after a difficult separation, children thrive. They learn that love and respect can exist even in the face of disagreement. And that lesson can last a lifetime.
If you’re struggling to communicate or feel overwhelmed by conflict in your co-parenting relationship, consider exploring parenting coordination services. With professional guidance and compassionate structure, families can move beyond conflict and build the foundation for a positive co-parenting family relationship.
Learn more about Qualified Parenting Coordinator, Amanda Powell. Amanda is currently qualified in the 5th, 8th, 18th, 19th, and 20th judicial circuit.